Pathological
lying
When the lie is
often used is a risk that it becomes a habit. The more you lie more difficult
it becomes to leave the immediate benefit that gives the lie and, at the same
time, it is almost impossible to control all the misinformation that has been
passed and thus maintain a certain consistency. Thus mistrust, suspicion and
doubt occurs in people living near who lies, which ends up affecting your
personal relationships in all areas of your life, family, work, social, etc. Despite
these consequences some people still feel the compulsive urge to lie with a
certain regularity, not a particular secondary benefit, but in order to create
a new reality. These cases are those who are called compulsive liars. The
pathological liar usually begins with 'small' lies, and slowly feeling that you
are no longer valid, feel the need to 'enlarge' them is adding new ingredients
to make them more important and thus give value to yourself. In this way,
slowly, it is entering a dangerous process, which does not recognize and
therefore does not try to solve, because you're looking to build a new reality,
he uses lies on a daily basis, and does not take into account the consequences
that may result. The best antidote against lying is acceptance. When one
accepts this as it is, play fair with himself, recognize his strengths and
weaknesses, and is able to drawn a personal improvement plan, you do not need
to make use of lies that give value to others.
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