Friday, February 12, 2016



Pathological lying


When the lie is often used is a risk that it becomes a habit. The more you lie more difficult it becomes to leave the immediate benefit that gives the lie and, at the same time, it is almost impossible to control all the misinformation that has been passed and thus maintain a certain consistency. Thus mistrust, suspicion and doubt occurs in people living near who lies, which ends up affecting your personal relationships in all areas of your life, family, work, social, etc. Despite these consequences some people still feel the compulsive urge to lie with a certain regularity, not a particular secondary benefit, but in order to create a new reality. These cases are those who are called compulsive liars. The pathological liar usually begins with 'small' lies, and slowly feeling that you are no longer valid, feel the need to 'enlarge' them is adding new ingredients to make them more important and thus give value to yourself. In this way, slowly, it is entering a dangerous process, which does not recognize and therefore does not try to solve, because you're looking to build a new reality, he uses lies on a daily basis, and does not take into account the consequences that may result. The best antidote against lying is acceptance. When one accepts this as it is, play fair with himself, recognize his strengths and weaknesses, and is able to drawn a personal improvement plan, you do not need to make use of lies that give value to others.

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